
Meet Emily. She’s one of my newest and kindest friends in New York. We met through the tech and social media circle that is Tom & Jerry’s happy hour, and have been bouncing ideas off one another ever since. From running and technology to Ask Roulette and an ongoing match of Draw Something, she’s an encouraging and practical sounding board, not to mention a very gifted writer. Watching her Instagram feed last weekend inspired me to kick off this series- she ran a half marathon with her beautiful mother and the pictures were just amazing.
In her mother’s words…
Perhaps it seems unreal, but sometimes when I look at my grown daughter, I remember if only for a quick flash, her tiny little legs when she could not yet walk. She could crawl so quickly around our home I called her lightning legs. Now, almost 28 years later, her legs are stronger and faster than mine. She encourages and coaches my recoveries after a long run, or shows up with flax seeds to sprinkle into my oatmeal for the boost I might need when I hit the wall. I taught her to walk, talk, sing and love life. Now she is teaching me to walk when I need to, run the hills, have songs in my head for company when I am alone, and take each step with humor and dignity. I do not hope to win a race but to be light on my feet.
This keeps me more alive and has been a way to heal a broken heart after the loss of my daughter’s older brother. She knows that I did not know how to continue my life after his death. Putting on running shoes and running has been the breath of life I so needed. She spots a race, registers us, and keeps me focused on the next race…far enough in advance that I keep lacing up. Thanks lightning legs, for helping me to heal my broken heart.
In her words…
My mom is my inspiration. She’s amazingly kind, strong, generous, adventurous and just plain wonderful. She believes in me so much that I can’t help but aspire to do great things and make an impact in this world. I am so very lucky.
I usually call my mom when I’m walking home from work. One of her favourite questions to ask is: what are you wearing? She loves to be able to picture me amid the beeping taxis and the whir of New York City.
While I gravitate toward pinks, florals, lace and ruffles, my mom loves stripes, polka dots, bold bright colours, bangles, beads and matching outfits. But there’s something amazing that happens quite often when we’re together: we end up accidentally coordinating, borrowing bits of style from one another.
It’s because there’s an essence of style that she’s passed along to me, a lesson about fashion and also about life. It’s the notion that — while experiences are more valuable than things and it’s what’s inside that really counts — the way you take care of and present yourself are some of the things you can control amid all the uncertainties in life. It’s the version of you that the rest of the world sees. And why not make them smile.
I love you, Mom. Thanks, Shayna for featuring my amazing mother and me.